The Elastic Band Theory

The Elastic Band Theory is simple really. Let's pretend you have an elastic band, one that is indestructible. It cannot be destroyed. And now let's say you have two movable objects on either end. On one end you have something called reality on the other end you have thoughts and beliefs.

Now imagine if you will a tug of war between the two ends. A constant struggle between your reality and your thoughts/beliefs. A tug of war between two wills.

If you have strong thoughts and beliefs, then your reality will be shaped by them. If your reality is stronger, it will shape your thoughts. Many people in the first group would be called leaders, who shape their life based on their dreams and vision, and move boldly forward. The other group would be those who are victims of their circumstances. They never seem to be able to make a success as much as they would like.

Strong thoughts lead to a more in line reality, weak will and thoughts lead to your reality shaping you.

"But my most coveted thing is the high self-esteem
and a low tolerance for them tellin me how to lean
see the most important parts are the one's that are unseen
the wings dont make you fly and the crown don't make you king
now GOD dont like ugly aint to happy bout pretty
I am ignorances enemy so stay out the vicinity of"
--Lupe Fiasco