Take It From Me: He's Just Not That Into You

There is simply no other way to put it, he's just not that into you. It's hard for girls to really wrap their heads around that. It's a simple fact, if he doesn't call you and seems uninterested in your conversation and what you have to say; chances are he isn't even interested in you. But does that really come as a surprise to you girls? How many times do you find yourself saying that you wish he'd try harder, you wish he'd make more of an effort. You call him more than he calls you, you ask him to go do something more often than he asks you. Now you can kid yourself and say that this is because he's just one of those guys, you know he's just acting as a typical guy would. Well that's true, all guys act in a "typical" way. We all have our genetic predispositions. We don't seek your approval, we don't do things out of our way for your own personal enjoyment. As men we are territorial by nature, I still pee on my bed just to let people know whose it is. This territory is not to be infringed upon by anyone, especially someone without a pair of testicles. It's hard to give up the space that we feel we have fought so dearly for, the space that we carved for ourselves without you. So to let you just waltz in and take that space is not something we'll do lightly.

But back to my point, he's just not that into you. Well you could just say he's being a guy, he's just acting how he's expected to act. I have some news for you, it's an act. Guys act that way just to act that way. I have this theory that deep down everyone is a head in the cloud romantic, and we all just have different levels of realization. And most people can never cope with high levels of realization. See even though a guy says he wants to be independent and he wants his space to be his space. It isn't completely true, and even though we want our space, we would really like to share it with someone. To let our guards down and let someone in to share something personal is something we both long for and shy away from. It takes a special kind of girl to get a guy to open up, and it takes times. It's an uneasy feeling, sharing is. But you know what when you find that right person it's easy. Everything is surmountable and it doesn't matter how we used to be in the past. So if you don't give him that easy feeling, well he's not going to be that interested. Chances are if you feel that he's even just slightly not that into you; well then he's definately not that into you. If you're thinking it, he definately knows it.

Take it from Me.